The Family is a feeling

When I come to the USA,I left whole my family in Moldova.I come here  just with my boyfriend,who later became my husband,without knowing anyone and without knowing English.Whole my life my family had been with me, I had never lived without my parents and my sister, and at the first was very hard for me. With time I learned that my family is always with me, in my heart and in my mind.
    When I started to work at my first job it was very hard for me and I cried a lot; I needed my parents, but they weren’t with me. My mind was just home with them, my things were about what they can do for me if I’m to far for them and I started to think about them. Every day when I started my work I looked to the window and said to myself “ I can do this;my mom is with me and she will help me if something is too-hard”.I  can tell you now that this worked; I was able to pull myself together and I didn’t felt lonely.
       I remember when I got married my parents were in Moldova, but I was in the USA. I woke up in the morning and in my heart was pain, but I heard my phone ring and it was my parents and grandparents, and in a flash, a big smile appeared. It made such a difference on my big day. They can be five thousands miles away from me, but in my heart they are always with me.
       We can go all over the world, we can forget about some people from our life,but we will never forget about people that gave us life. We can forget the most important moments in life because they are in our mind. When we will need to find this information we need to look in our mind or in our heart and they will be there.I’m never alone and never I will be because my family lives in my heart and always will be with me.
     Don’t think if your family is far from you, you don’t have family. Family is not a place where you need to go, it is a feeling,it is what is in your heart. The people who live in your heart are your family. Even if people die,they still live in your heart and continue to be your family;you can’t touch them or talk with them, but you can feel them. ,that is your family. Memories of parents, grandparents,and siblings  will never die and you will never loose them so your family will be always with you. I believe in  family,  and that it lives in our hearts.